January Jones sharing Senior Success & How to save your Marriage!

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Radio. Who is January Jones.
She is not a young, beautiful,

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talented actress on Madman. She is
not an older, gorgeous exotic dancer from

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The Johnny Carson Show. She is
an author and she wrote Thou Show Not

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Why the Eleventh Commandment that rates number
one at Amazon dot com. She is

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a reality TV golf personality with World
High Stakes Golf televised on hd Net.

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She is a hugehumorist and why knowlogist
expert. She is your featured host today

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on January Jones sharing success stories.
So sit back, relax, and get

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ready to laugh and listen to Ms
Jones with her eclectic roster of guests as

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you learn life's lessons. These stories
plus sharing equal success. Welcome and remember

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beware because you are entering the no
whining world of January Jones. Hello everyone,

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I hope you're having a wonderful day. I'm January Jones and I'm like

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to welcome you to our podcast today. As many of you know, I've

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been on hiatus and it's so lovely
to be back with you live again.

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By the way, we've renamed the
show and it's now January Jones share ring

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senior success. As some of you
know, I recently turned eighty and so

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now I want to share other senior
stories. However, never feel I'm still

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the glitter granny hat lady. And
as you know, we all wear different

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hats every day, and today I'm
wearing a glitter head been instead of a

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hat. Now, for my listeners, let me ask you a question.

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Do you really want to succeed in
life? Well that's an easy answer,

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Yes, sure, we all do. Tell me, do you ever wonder

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what you need to do to be
successful? Have you ever thought about your

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problems? Yeah? I know we
all have. Have you ever considered that

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your problems maybe are not your fault? Can you imagine what it would be

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like to let yourself off the hook
today and every day in the future.

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Do you wish you could meet someone
who could tell you how to do that?

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Yeah? Would you like to meet
a man who is doing his own

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podcast right now? If you can
answer yes or maybe to any of these

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questions that I've asked you, then
you are in the right place, and

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I would like to welcome you to
January Jones Sharing Senior Success. So relax,

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go get some wine, get some
cheese crackers, settle down, and

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let me tell you about my guests
today. My guest tells us that if

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you really want to succeed in your
life, you have to let yourself off

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the hook. Okay, I got
it. Stop trying to solve your problems

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and shot trying to manage your life
through force and struggles. That just keeps

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you stuck. And you need to
realize that your problems aren't your fault.

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They're simply the result of using your
brain the wrong way. That's an interesting

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thought, isn't it. My guests
will show you how to unlock your natural

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creativity, enabling you to discover and
live a truly rewarding and fulfilling life.

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It is my pleasure to welcome back
to our pat podcast all the way from

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southern Spain. Liam Nadan, Hi
Liam, how are you doing today?

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Dear Hi? Jenuine great, thank
you, great to be back with you

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and thanks again for having me.
Oh, it's wonderful. I look forward

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to this. It's been a long
time since we've been together and it's so

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wonderful to get to see you.
And briefly I didn't realize you were in

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Spain. How long have you been
there? Probably about a week now,

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I think, well, maybe about
ten days. It's a bit how we

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were in France before that. We're
traveling around, so about ten days,

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okay, Yeah, And you shared
before we went on the air with me

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that you had been prior to Spain
where you're in an RV, right,

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that's right that I think you're in
right now right here, Yeah, my

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recording studio as well. So prior
to that, you were at on a

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sailboat or you were at sea for
quite a few years, weren't you.

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Yeah, we spent eight years traveling
around Europe on a yacht and just really

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exploring fifteen countries and just yeah,
having a good look around. So you're

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living and everyone's dream. You know, everyone at some point has drugged about

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what you're doing. Tell me a
little bit. What's that like for a

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relationship and how First of all,
how long have you who are you with

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and how long have you been together? Oh? Well, my partner and

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I we've been together for about fourteen
years now, and we've been traveling as

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nomads for about twelve years, so
we're pretty much much homeless. And it's

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interesting you say, you know,
we're living people's dreams. I think really

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the message I try and share with
people is that everybody's dream is different and

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whoever's listening and watching, the key
is to realize there's a dream inside you

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that is unique to you, and
if you do use your brain the right

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way, which is sort of the
theme of what I've learned in my years,

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and you can live your dream.
Not only can you live your dream,

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but you're suppose used to be living
your dream. That's what you're biologically

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designed to do. So. And
the good thing about that is instead of

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looking at other people and saying I
wish I was doing what they're doing,

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when your brain's working the right way, you go, wow, I'm doing

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what I should be doing and it's
unique to me. And that's when life

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becomes really exciting because people say,
how do you do what you do?

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Well? How I do what I
do is not really relevant to other people

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because they need to be doing what
they need to be doing to be happy.

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Yeah, okay, I can.
I'm on board with that. Everyone

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has to find their own path.
Yeah. I mean everyone would think,

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oh, I'd love to go off
to see you for eight years or travel

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in an R ANDV throughout Europe,
and you've actually are doing it. Tell

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me how this all came about?
And I know you went from being a

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multi millionaire to becoming homeless. Is
that correct? Yeah, that's right.

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I was one of those on the
success track, you know, always trying

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to figure out how I could be
more successful and achieve more and set bigger

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goals, make more money, do
all that sort of thing, and then

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you know, and I went.
I learned. As well as having my

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own businesses, I learned a lot
about motivation and self help and spirituality and

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did all sorts of courses and seminars
on you know, goal setting and peak

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performance. And in my mid forties, I had it all on the outside,

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but I also had a lot of
problems and stress. But then I

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lost everything. I became homeless and
ended up moving in with my mother into

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and sleeping on the sofa in the
living room of her small apartment. So

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it was a bit of a shock. But from that, from that experience,

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I really learned what it is that
I had been doing the wrong way.

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And because when I rebuilt my life, I attracted a new partner one

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I have now and things were going
a lot differently to what they had before.

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There wasn't the stress and the struggle, and I started and I was

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doing things that I really enjoyed,
was excited about, like and unexpected things

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like it. Certainly wasn't on a
goals list to go sailing around Europe for

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eight years, or wasn't even on
a goals list to live in an RV

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in Europe. So what I figured
out was the only difference was how I

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was using my brain, and using
my brain in a different way meant the

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difference between stress and struggle and lack
of fulfillment to really magic happening in your

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life and living the dream. So
that's what I spend my time now,

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not only learning more about myself and
applying it to my own life, but

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helping and sharing it with others as
well. Oh wow, that's now.

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In order to do this, did
you put your thoughts? Did you create

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a But I know you're doing a
podcast, and I think that's incredible,

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especially knowing you're doing your podcast from
your RB all over the world. I

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think that's Isn't this an amazing world
we're living in these days? Oh?

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You know, anybody who says,
I'm sorry to say, anybody who says

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we don't live in the best time
in history using their brain the right way,

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because they're not they're not seeing what
is really here. And you're right.

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It's just so full of opportunity.
And you know, as we travel

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around Europe, one of the things
that I notice is the amazing abundance and

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how how great the world is to
be in right now. It's so you

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know, everything's been cleaned up.
You know, cities are so much nicer

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to be in, and it's so
much easier to do anything. And so

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I think, you know, we
really do live in an amazing time.

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We're very lucky to be here.
You know. It's so wonderful to have

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you visit with us today because you
are well. We need we need a

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little more positive thoughts. We need
a little more positive inspiration. Lately everyone

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has been so depressed. It's been
so difficult, of course with the war

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in Ukraine, and now we have
this horrible situation taking place in Israel and

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Palestine and everyone's liking it to those
things have never been this bad, although

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I'm sure you know when people went
through other things like World War Two,

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they thought things could never get worse
than that. And we're so in need

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of some positive energy, don't you
agree. Well, I think what we

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need is some understanding about and awareness, because the thing about your brain is

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that it's really something that it's a
perception machine. So it creates your without

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getting into too much of the technical
science, but it creates your own perception.

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So whatever is going on in your
environment, how your brain interprets it

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in a certain way. And science
has said that of all of the energy

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and all of the everything that exists
in the universe, we're only able to

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perceive zero point zero zero five percent
of everything that exists, So most of

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what's out there we're not aware of
at all. So what that really tells

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us is that everything is to do
with our perception, and this machine that

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you have. Your brain is what
creates your perception, so it actually goes

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way beyond positive thinking. You know, I'm not a positive thinker. I'm

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a realist, but I use my
brain in a certain way that my perception

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is different. And when you use
your brain the right way, your perception

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expands and you see things in a
different sort of way. And I know

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that's difficult for people to understand because
they say, well, what are you

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talking about all these of course,
there are all these terrible things going on

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in the world. Are you denying
that those things are going on? What

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I'm really saying is everything that you
think and see is the result of your

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brain's interpretation of a certain amount of
energy. That's the reality of it.

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Yeah, And I've kind of always
to myself felt like our brains are the

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most original, incredible computers that came
prior to all the other computers that have

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followed. You know, right now, we're going to take a short break.

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So if you are a whiner or
you know someone who whins, this

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break is for you. Lately,
there is a whining epidemic in our world.

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People are even whining about whining.
Are you sick and tired of listening

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to everyone whining all the time.
So was January Jones, the author of

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Thou Shalt Not Whine The Eleventh Commandment
that reached number one at Amazon dot com.

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Miss Jones based her book on our
survey of the top ten things that

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people whine about at all ages and
all stages of life. January is a

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success coach that can tell you how
to help others. When you buy Thou

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Shalt Not Whine The Eleventh Commandment,
you'll find out what people whine about and

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how to stop them from whining.
This is the perfect gift book to give

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or get for any occasion. Thou
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to be given anonymously for those special
people in your life. Miss Jones is

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an internationally known author in the style
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With her book being published in Korea
and China. You can find Thou

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Shall Not Wine at Amazon dot com. Welcome back my guest, Liam Nan,

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who is visiting with us from Spain. It's so wonderful to have you

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with us today. And I have
to just go back to this part where

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you were at sea for eight years
I'm curious, when you look back on

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it, what was the worst thing
about being at sea? And then what

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was the best thing? Well,
it was actually the same thing, which

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was uncertainty, because when you think
about it, when you're on a sailboat,

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you're at the mercy of the weather
and conditions change, and to a

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lesser degree, the way I live
now in an RV is you're constantly making

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decisions where should I go, And
when you're sailing on a boat, you

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might have to change. You know, the weather might change and you might

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decide to go somewhere else, or
you might reach a destination. And this

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often happened to us, and we'd
say, do we like being here?

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Is this what we expected? Yes? Or no, we don't really like

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being here, so let's just stay
for one day and then we'll move on

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somewhere else, or we get somewhere
and we thought, well, we didn't

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know if we'd like it, and
we end up staying for months. That's

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for instance, we went to Turkey. We were in Greek and the Greek

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islands, and we were cruising down
the Greek island coast and we thought,

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should we pop into Turkey and have
a look and we didn't know a lot

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about it. We thought, well, maybe we'll go for a couple of

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days and just just say we'd been
there. We ended up being there for

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eighteen months. It was a most
amazing place. The people, the food,

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the scenery absolutely incredible. So the
thing I learned, and this is

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so important to realize, is that
when you use your brain the right way,

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what you end up what you start
to do is you start to embrace

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uncertainty in your life and you start
to realize that you're not in control.

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There's a part of you that is
in control and that will guide you if

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you let it. If you let
yourself off the hook and you let this

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part of your brain do its job
to guide you to the best life possible

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and being the best that you can
be. It will do that, but

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it's going to lead you to it's
going to take you to places that you're

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unsure about. It's going to introduce
uncertainty in your life, and you have

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to allow things to unfold rather than
trying to. And this is the problem

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most people have. They're trying to
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than realizing there's a part of them
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how to get it for them,
and they just need to use that part

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and allow it to happen. So
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once you start to embrace it,
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that's what life's supposed to be.
It's not supposed to be a struggle

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and a grind. It's supposed to
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ourself. That's why we're here.
So that's what uncertainty is. And when

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you learn to, as I say, live with it and deal with it,

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which you certainly do on a sailboat, then it's a great skill to

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develop and you realize that's the way
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know, I can really relate to
what you're saying about Turkey because many years

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ago we were fortunate enough to visit
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and felt like I had been there
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just like coming home. It was
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memorable trips of my life. I
really, You know, before we go

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on too much, let's share with
our listeners your information, your website,

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let's share your podcast and books and
how they can contact you. Could you

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do that now? Sure? Well, it's just my name. My website

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is my name, which is Liamnaden
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and my books and my coaching programs. I have a free course at the

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moment which people can sign up for, which is called how to Unlock your

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Success Brain. And this is a
simple thing, three step process that will

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actually move your brain from the struggle
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part, to the part that does
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into your life. And when you
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us, all of the things that
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not things we have on a goals
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and we marry them. How did
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or we have a business opportunity,
or we speak to somebody. All

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of these things are happening in a
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because it's a different part of our
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So that's what my mini course shows
you is how what I call your

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success brain, how to start using
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life, a positive difference. Okay, now, let's talk a little bit

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about topics for sharing all that information
so people can find you. How more

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simple could it be? Liam Naden
dot com. You know that's my website

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too. My website is January doone
dot com. It's so easy. Let's

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talk about the most important piece of
the puzzle that most people are missing when

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they're trying to get a grip on
life. I think the most important thing

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that people have forgotten about, we've
all forgotten about, is nature controls everything.

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You know. We're busy out there
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make our life a certain way.
But nature, the laws of nature govern

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everything. And for instance, you
can walk out a ten story building and

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you can have told yourself you can
be motivated, you can pray, you

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can work on changing your beliefs,
and you can truly believe that if you

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walk out a ten story building you're
going to fly into the air. You

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can believe that, but you won't. You'll fall to the ground. So

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it doesn't matter what you do with
your thinking and your efforts, You're going

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to be controlled by nature. Again, try and control. Try and stop

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breathing for a week. You can't
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heart. Right, there's something else. And it turns out that nature has

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these laws, one of them being
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But nature is a biological law because
if you were to ask any biologist

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or biological scientist, what is the
purpose of life? Why are we here?

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all biological life, including us,
their overriding purpose. What they're wired to

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do more than anything else, is
to survive. We're all wired for survival,

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and biologically, what that means is
that we're wired to try and find

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the way to have the greatest chance
for survival. And the way we have

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the greatest chance for this for survival
is by being our best. When we're

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strong, healthy, happy, When
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much greater chance of physical survival than
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We know all of that, and
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organism, so every organism is designed
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that it has the greatest chance for
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with a mechanism, a machine,
a device whose sole job is to ensure

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that that happens, that that organism
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being the best that it can be, and that is a brain. And

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we've got a brain with exactly the
same purpose to make sure that we are

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the best that we can be so
that we have the greatest chance for survival,

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and that includes being our happiest.
So on a biological level, we

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have this machine called a brain designed
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we are happy, being our best, doing what we should be with our

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life, and not having problems and
stress, because problems and stress don't help

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us be the best that we can
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they don't help us survive. They
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thing you can say is why do
we have problems? Then why aren't we

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the best that we can be?
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that we are well, there's only
one reason, and that is, like

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any other machine, if it's not
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to create problems. You know,
try to imagine trying to drive your car

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down the road. You know what
a car is it's a machine very simply

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designed for one thing, to get
you from where you are to where you

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want to go the easiest, most
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But if you don't drive it properly, you're going to end up with

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problems. And when you end up
with problems, you don't say whether there's

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something wrong with the car, or
you don't say, this is the way

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it's supposed to be. You're supposed
to have an engine blowing up, or

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that you're tires working. You say, I must be doing something wrong.

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I'm driving it wrong. Exactly the
same with your brain. And when you

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learn how to use it the right
way, your problems disappear, your perception

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changes, and you find you're doing
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decisions, you're picking the right goals
for yourself, and life doesn't become a

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struggle because you're using this machine called
your brain. You know you mentioned earlier.

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Your brain is a computer, and
it's quite powerful. You know how

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powerful it is. It has the
computing power of five hundred trillion computer micro

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processes. It's far, in a
way, the most powerful machine, powerful

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computer, far more powerful than all
of the other computers on the planet put

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together, and it's called on purpose
to make you the best that you can

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be, to make you happy,
fulfilled, excited, resourceful, doing the

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best with your life. That's what
it's designed to do. And if you

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it's not doing it, if your
life doesn't reflect that, all you can

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say is there's something about me using
the machine that's creating problems. So I'm

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not using it the right way right, And I think the thing we've all

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missed, that's the thing I've missed
for decades when I was struggling to achieve

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success. You know, I need
to learn more. I need to set

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higher goals. I need to struggle
harder. I need to fight against myself

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rather than just realize I was using
my brain the wrong way and no matter

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what I did. It's a bit
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know how to drive a car,
you might think, well, what I

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need to do is I need to
get out from behind and push the car

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along. Maybe that's how you get
it to work. And you put in

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all the effort, but it doesn't
work, and you can try harder and

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you think, you say, there's
something wrong with me. I'm not motivated

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enough. I'm not strong enough.
I'm not putting in enough effort. But

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you're simply doing it the wrong way. It's not supposed to be that difficult.

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Okay, this is fascinating. We're
going to take a break and when

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we come back, Liam is going
to give give us some tips on how

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to use our brains better. And
did you know that has been sixty years

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since the assassination of John Kennedy and
people are still asking who killed Kennedy?

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Let me ask you a question,
are you still wondering who killed Kennedy?

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Over fifty years later? The assassination
is still a mystery. It is unfinished

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business for our country. Now get
ready for a theory that you've never heard

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before, but will make more sense
than any other conspiracy theory that you've ever

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heard in the past. January Jones
speaks the unspeakable in her book Jackie,

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Ari and jack The tragic love triangle
connecting Jackie and Aristot alone ass romantically prior

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to JFK's assassination. Did you know
that Ari was Jackie's guest in the White

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House during the JFK funeral. He
was the only non family member who was

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invited by Jackie to stay there during
the funeral. Aristot Lonasis was one of

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the wealthiest men in the world,
with the means, the motive, and

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the money to order an assassination.
That was the perfect crime of the last

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century. All Right needed class and
Jackie needed cash. They were perfect for

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each other. Now, what is
Camelot? It is but another tragic love

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triangle? Jackie Ari and jack is
available at January Jones dot com, Amazon

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dot com and audiobooks dot com.
Read by mis Jones. Welcome back with

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our amazing gas, Liam Nadan,
and now we're going to talk about using

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our brain. And Liam's going to
give us some tips on how we can

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use our brain more efficiently. Well, it's quite simple, but not necessarily

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easy. The core understanding and I
go into great detail through my podcast and

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all my programs and coaching to help
people understand how the brain actually works and

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how it's actually There are four parts
to your brain and they need to work

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together in a certain way for you
to get the right results in your life

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and to do its job properly,
which is to make you the best that

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you can be. And it will
do that if you allow it to.

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But here's the thing. The way
your brain works, and without going into

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all the technical jargon of everything,
in its core essence, your brain creates

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one of two emotional states. And
depending on what that emotional state is,

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that will determine whether you us stay
stuck with problems and stress in your life

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and not really ever achieving what you
know is your true potential, or whether

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you live your biological purpose of being
the best that you can be. So

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those two emotional states are one is
a state of fear and the other state

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is non fear. If you like
where you're feeling good, happy, loving,

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resourceful, And here's what happens when
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and by fear, I'm also talking
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frustration, anger, because all of
those actually come from at their core,

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they're created by fear. So what
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feel that emotion, what your brain
is saying is there is an immediate threat

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to your survival in your environment and
environment right now, because fear has only

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one purpose in your life. Biologically, we would our brain is designed for

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you to feel good using what I
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which is where your intuition, your
resourcefulness, your imagination, your creativity,

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your motive, you love all of
those things where you feel really good,

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that's your natural state. That's when
you are being the best that you can

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be, and your brain is making
sure you make the right decisions and do

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the right things, and avoid problems
and solve problems quickly and easily and see

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the big picture about what's going on
in your life and who you are and

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what's going on in the world.
That's all your natural state. However,

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there's only one time when you're not
supposed to be being the best that you

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can be, and that is if
something comes into your environment which is a

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threat to your survival. And biologically, when the brain was created millions of

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years ago or whenever it was,
there are a lot of threats. You

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know, you'd be walking along the
forest and lions would be hiding behind the

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rocks or snakes would be in the
grass. So the brain developed a weapon

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or an emergency survival tool called the
fight flight mechanism, which have obviously heard

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of, and that's activated by fear. So what happens is the brain when

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you activate the state of fear,
when you feel fear, anxiety, or

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stress, you activate something called your
sympathetic nervous system, and it blocks off

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all of this creative part of your
brain because it directs all of your resources

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to what the brain thinks it needs
to do to get rid of an immediate

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threat to your survival. So jump
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or shout for help, or fight
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response, a reaction, and we've
all had that feeling where you just react

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to something. So your brains developed
this toolless weapon to protect you from an

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immediate threat to your survival. But
here's the thing. Because of our programming,

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conditioning, habits, everything we've developed
in our life, most people are

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activating this part of their brain nearly
all the time. They're feeling fear,

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they're feeling stress, anxiety, frustration, and they don't realize that when they

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do that, they activate this sympathetic
nervous system, they shut down all of

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them awareness, all of their problem
solving ability, all of their imagination,

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their creativity. There, you know
that when you get those are harh moments,

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or you get those gut feelings about
knowing what to do, or some

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unexpected event happens in your life,
this is all the workings of your natural

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creative brain. But you shuttle that
down when you feel fear. When you

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activate this flight response, and so
instead of it being something that you might

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only use once or twice in your
life. You know, a car might

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come towards and you jump out of
the way. What you're doing with your

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brain. You've trained your brain to
see threats to your survival when they don't

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exist. We've wired it. This
is part of the problem. When you

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watch the news and you hear about
a war or something, what happens,

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you feel bad, you feel stress, you feel anxiety. Now, why

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would you do that when there's something
happening on the other side of the world

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it's not affecting you. Or your
wife tells you that they want a divorce,

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or your company sales go down.
All of these things create this fear

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and anxiety. And what's actually happening
on a biological level is your brain has

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linked that event to your survival and
it's activated the part of your brain that

410
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is just the reaction part, and
it's not the problem solving part. It's

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not the part. This is why
when people say when they feel bad,

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they can't think straight. You know
that when we've all had that feeling.

413
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Your brain can't think straight. All
of the thinking straight part is shut down

414
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when you're feeling fear, stress,
and anxiety. So the real key to

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success is to realize that your enemy
is fear. Anything that makes you feel

416
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bad in your life, you've got
to eliminate or reduce as much as possible.

417
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And people say to me, oh, I can't do that. I've

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got all these responsibilities and stresses and
problems in my life. But that's a

419
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little bit like saying, here's a
motorle. Somebody coming to you and saying,

420
00:34:00.279 --> 00:34:05.200
drink this hydrochloric acid. And you
would say to them, what do

421
00:34:05.240 --> 00:34:07.039
you mean drink hydrochloric acid? If
high drink that, it's going to damage

422
00:34:07.039 --> 00:34:09.800
me or it's going to harm me. Oh no, they say, no,

423
00:34:09.880 --> 00:34:13.760
I won't know. If you believe
and if you trust and everything,

424
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and this is a different thing,
don't worry, everything will be fine.

425
00:34:15.760 --> 00:34:21.400
You wouldn't believe them. You'd say
you are crazy. I know, doesn't

426
00:34:21.440 --> 00:34:24.280
matter what the justification is. My
grandmother comes along and says, please drink

427
00:34:24.280 --> 00:34:29.679
the hydrochloric acid. Doesn't matter what
the justification is. You know, if

428
00:34:29.719 --> 00:34:32.519
you put that into your system,
going to damage you. And it's the

429
00:34:32.599 --> 00:34:37.079
same with fear, stress, and
anxiety. No matter what you think your

430
00:34:37.199 --> 00:34:42.480
justification is, it's going to put
you into the wrong brain state and keep

431
00:34:42.519 --> 00:34:46.679
you stuck. That's why you've spend
your time on focusing on retraining your brain

432
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to see the difference between a lion
and everything else. HM. That's an

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interesting concept. So are you possibly
suggesting to me to my husband, who

434
00:35:01.280 --> 00:35:07.639
were both fearful about the world's situation, are you saying just tune it out

435
00:35:07.679 --> 00:35:10.559
and stop listening to the news.
Well, one of the best things you

436
00:35:10.559 --> 00:35:15.519
can do is stop listening to the
news, absolutely, And I stopped watching

437
00:35:15.519 --> 00:35:19.360
the news more than a decade ago, and that's when my life really started

438
00:35:19.400 --> 00:35:22.880
to turn around. Because here's one
of the other interesting things about the news.

439
00:35:22.920 --> 00:35:25.199
A lot of the time, how
do you know it's even true?

440
00:35:27.320 --> 00:35:31.159
You know, so many things have
happened that have been We've been told the

441
00:35:31.239 --> 00:35:35.800
latest disaster. You know what the
world's going to end, And you know

442
00:35:35.880 --> 00:35:38.360
oil is going to run out.
In nineteen seventy oil was going to run

443
00:35:38.440 --> 00:35:43.719
out in ten years. In nineteen
seventy nine, they said the polar ice

444
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caps are going to melt within a
decade in nineteen seventy nine. So you

445
00:35:47.119 --> 00:35:52.239
you and again when you raise your
awareness and you realize that fear is the

446
00:35:52.360 --> 00:35:57.039
enemy and you cut out the things
that make you feel bad, you start

447
00:35:57.119 --> 00:36:00.639
to see things in a more expensive
way because your brain. You're opening up

448
00:36:00.679 --> 00:36:07.559
the creative part of your brain that
sees the truth. So this idea that

449
00:36:07.599 --> 00:36:12.920
you need to stay informed and be
a realist and realistic. What is the

450
00:36:13.000 --> 00:36:16.239
truth? What is reality? As
I said right at the beginning, everything

451
00:36:16.320 --> 00:36:22.280
is your perception. You only see
zero point zero, zero five percent of

452
00:36:22.280 --> 00:36:27.280
what is actually real. You know, several years ago, as we said,

453
00:36:27.320 --> 00:36:30.199
I lost everything, became homeless.
Now was that a bad thing or

454
00:36:30.239 --> 00:36:35.920
was that a great thing? What
do you think? If it hadn't happened,

455
00:36:36.159 --> 00:36:37.280
I wouldn't be here right now.
I wouldn't be talking to you.

456
00:36:37.599 --> 00:36:43.320
I wouldn't have learned all of this
stuff about about how the brain works.

457
00:36:43.360 --> 00:36:45.000
In my life wouldn't be the way
it is. I'd still be going down

458
00:36:45.079 --> 00:36:49.960
that track of setting more goals and
struggling and trying to make it all happen,

459
00:36:50.000 --> 00:36:53.880
and getting frustrated and getting angry and
having all these problems and stress.

460
00:36:55.000 --> 00:36:58.519
So it was a great thing.
It's the best thing that happened. So

461
00:36:58.639 --> 00:37:02.000
what is reality? What is truth? Another quick example the Titanic disaster,

462
00:37:02.880 --> 00:37:08.519
when that's was that a bad thing? Fifteen hundred people died on the Titanic,

463
00:37:08.800 --> 00:37:13.800
But you know the amazing thing about
that is when that happened, because

464
00:37:13.840 --> 00:37:19.320
of that, they changed all of
the laws surrounding safety at sea on ships,

465
00:37:19.559 --> 00:37:23.559
and far more people's lives have been
saved since then. Because the Titanic

466
00:37:23.639 --> 00:37:28.559
sank, then were the ones who
lost their lives. So was the thinking

467
00:37:28.599 --> 00:37:31.800
of the Titanic a bad thing?
Well, it certainly was a bad thing

468
00:37:31.920 --> 00:37:38.239
for the fifteen hundred people died that
day. But as you're pointing out the

469
00:37:38.360 --> 00:37:45.159
repercussions, you actually, you know, I have a grandmother and she used

470
00:37:45.159 --> 00:37:51.199
to always live by that the worst
things in life that will happen to you

471
00:37:51.800 --> 00:37:57.840
will somehow turn out to be the
best thing. I think you're living proof

472
00:37:57.880 --> 00:38:02.159
of that right now. Yeah,
everything is perception. So you have to

473
00:38:02.199 --> 00:38:07.079
say, now, I think,
how's it making me feel? Because if

474
00:38:07.079 --> 00:38:10.760
it's making you feel bad, you
lose, You are stuck. And if

475
00:38:10.760 --> 00:38:15.159
you really want to make a contribution
to the world, because remember part of

476
00:38:15.880 --> 00:38:20.519
you being the best that you can
be biologically is not only to help your

477
00:38:20.559 --> 00:38:23.400
own survival, it's to help the
survival of everyone else around you. And

478
00:38:23.440 --> 00:38:28.320
when you're resourceful and being your best, you can be creative and you can

479
00:38:28.360 --> 00:38:32.719
contribute to society and the survival and
the betterment of other people far more effectively

480
00:38:34.039 --> 00:38:39.679
than when you're all stressed and frustrated
and afraid. So again, you need

481
00:38:39.719 --> 00:38:45.880
to realize that the most important responsibility
you have is to ensure that you become

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You use your brain the right way, and it will guide you and make

483
00:38:49.360 --> 00:38:52.480
sure that you and everything that's important
to you will be the best it can

484
00:38:52.519 --> 00:38:58.119
be. That's what it's biologically designed
to do. Yeah, and we have

485
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with my guest Liam Nina, and
I'm enjoying this visit so much. I

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have a million questions to ask you. One of the things you say is

515
00:41:45.639 --> 00:41:52.800
that goals hurt us rather than help
us in achieving success. Now that seems

516
00:41:52.840 --> 00:41:57.360
like a real contradiction to me,
because I've always assumed you just have to

517
00:41:57.440 --> 00:42:01.480
have goals in life to be successful. What are you saying about that realm?

518
00:42:02.800 --> 00:42:07.559
Well, the reality is that statement. You have to have goals in

519
00:42:07.599 --> 00:42:13.679
your life to be successful. With
all due respect, it's what I discovered.

520
00:42:14.079 --> 00:42:16.880
It's like so many things that we've
been told are true. But if

521
00:42:16.920 --> 00:42:21.320
you actually dig a little bit into
it, you realize it's not true.

522
00:42:21.880 --> 00:42:28.360
And the accepted percentage success rate for
goal setting is between two and three percent.

523
00:42:29.079 --> 00:42:31.760
In other words, of all of
the goals that people ever set,

524
00:42:31.800 --> 00:42:35.719
they only achieve about two to three
percent of them, if at all.

525
00:42:35.760 --> 00:42:38.000
And if you really think, if
people who are listening really think about it,

526
00:42:38.000 --> 00:42:42.719
what goals have you set? Have
you achieved them? Are you achieving

527
00:42:42.719 --> 00:42:47.920
them or are you continually continuing with
this with this idea that you know you're

528
00:42:47.960 --> 00:42:52.960
on the right track and you're going
to achieve that goal one day. So

529
00:42:52.000 --> 00:42:55.480
the reality is very few people.
And even if you talk to the great

530
00:42:55.519 --> 00:42:59.840
gurus of success, they will admit
to you that the people who go to

531
00:42:59.840 --> 00:43:02.199
the seminars and do all of their
goal read all their goal setting stuff,

532
00:43:02.559 --> 00:43:09.480
very few people achieve in reality very
much. And the reason is when you're

533
00:43:09.480 --> 00:43:13.960
setting goals, most of the time, you're using the wrong part of your

534
00:43:13.960 --> 00:43:16.400
brain. You're using the limited,
fear based part of your brain, and

535
00:43:16.400 --> 00:43:20.519
you're thinking, I need to have
this for me to be happy, or

536
00:43:20.559 --> 00:43:24.039
I really want to have that for
me to be happy. And so there

537
00:43:24.039 --> 00:43:28.079
are two problems with that. One
is the part of your brain that you're

538
00:43:28.199 --> 00:43:30.960
using when you're doing that doesn't know
what you want. It can't. That's

539
00:43:31.000 --> 00:43:35.239
the other part of your brain,
your creative brain, the fight flight,

540
00:43:35.400 --> 00:43:38.400
fear based what I call your survival
brain, that doesn't have any of the

541
00:43:38.440 --> 00:43:43.079
answers. All that knows is how
to react. So if you say what

542
00:43:43.119 --> 00:43:45.199
do I need to be happy,
it's going to say, oh, you

543
00:43:45.199 --> 00:43:46.719
need a million dollars, or you
need ten million dollars, or you need

544
00:43:46.719 --> 00:43:51.159
an amazing marriage, or you need
to be married to this person and needs

545
00:43:51.159 --> 00:43:53.079
to be really happy. It's just
going to react. It doesn't have the

546
00:43:53.599 --> 00:43:58.920
true answer. The true answers to
what you need for you to be happy

547
00:43:59.000 --> 00:44:05.280
is contained in your creative brain,
and your creative brain doesn't operate by telling

548
00:44:05.320 --> 00:44:08.960
you what your goals should be.
Occasionally it does. Sometimes you see something

549
00:44:09.039 --> 00:44:13.199
you just know on a different level, I'm going to have that. You

550
00:44:13.239 --> 00:44:15.360
walk into a house and you say
I'm going to buy this house, or

551
00:44:15.400 --> 00:44:19.639
you meet somebody and you say I'm
going to marry that person, and there's

552
00:44:19.679 --> 00:44:22.320
not any logic attached to it,
and sometimes you think that's a bit,

553
00:44:22.639 --> 00:44:27.360
but you know, it doesn't sound
really realistic for that to happen. But

554
00:44:27.400 --> 00:44:30.679
it does happen, and it happens, and it flows along and all the

555
00:44:30.719 --> 00:44:35.199
right things happen. You find out
you've achieved that goal. But that's a

556
00:44:35.239 --> 00:44:38.559
different sort of a goal that doesn't
come from struggle and needing something to happen

557
00:44:38.960 --> 00:44:44.119
for you to be happy. So
the way your creative brain works is it

558
00:44:44.159 --> 00:44:47.119
doesn't usually show you the goal.
What it shows you is the only thing

559
00:44:47.159 --> 00:44:51.159
you need to know, which is
the next step that you need to take.

560
00:44:52.000 --> 00:44:54.000
Because on a biological level, the
way your brain works, the way

561
00:44:54.000 --> 00:44:59.559
all of nature work, is with
the most energy efficient in the most energy

562
00:44:59.599 --> 00:45:05.000
efficient way possible, in other words, to conserve energy so that you get

563
00:45:05.039 --> 00:45:07.800
the most results out of the least
amount of energy. That's the way all

564
00:45:07.800 --> 00:45:12.559
of nature works. And when you
think about it, if your creative brain

565
00:45:12.679 --> 00:45:15.559
showed you what your goal should be
and showed you the twenty steps to get

566
00:45:15.559 --> 00:45:16.880
there, what are you going to
do? You're going to question it,

567
00:45:16.920 --> 00:45:20.639
You're going to think about it,
You're going to analyze it. You're going

568
00:45:20.679 --> 00:45:22.679
to say, well, I'm not
sure if that's what I really want,

569
00:45:22.719 --> 00:45:24.519
and hang on on. You know, you're going to waste all of that

570
00:45:24.760 --> 00:45:29.239
energy. But if it just shows
you one step at a time, you're

571
00:45:29.239 --> 00:45:31.199
just going to do it. You
just do it, and it's so much

572
00:45:31.239 --> 00:45:37.079
more efficient. And there's another place
there's proof for this. You know,

573
00:45:37.480 --> 00:45:42.119
I don't know about yourself, but
a lot of people believe in the Bible.

574
00:45:42.480 --> 00:45:45.119
The Bible turns out to be the
greatest manual on how to use your

575
00:45:45.119 --> 00:45:49.679
brain the right way that exists.
Because what does it say in the Bible.

576
00:45:50.360 --> 00:45:53.840
It says more than three hundred and
fifty times, three hundred and sixty

577
00:45:53.840 --> 00:45:59.320
four times, I think to be
exact, be not afraid. Those three

578
00:45:59.360 --> 00:46:04.079
words, be not afraid. And
it doesn't say try not to be so

579
00:46:04.239 --> 00:46:07.599
afraid and don't worry about things.
It's an instruction because when you're afraid,

580
00:46:07.760 --> 00:46:12.400
you're using the wrong part of your
brain. You're shutting down the part of

581
00:46:12.440 --> 00:46:16.119
your brain that is designed biologically to
bring you and make sure that you're the

582
00:46:16.119 --> 00:46:20.840
best that you can be. So
it's you don't be afraid. And it

583
00:46:20.920 --> 00:46:24.639
also says, give no thought for
tomorrow. Tomorrow will take care of itself.

584
00:46:25.159 --> 00:46:29.320
Do what you should eat, drink, or wear. This will all

585
00:46:29.360 --> 00:46:31.440
be provided for you. And if
you look at the rest of nature,

586
00:46:32.239 --> 00:46:36.119
what a bird you look at a
plant, you look at an insect,

587
00:46:36.400 --> 00:46:40.280
it's not struggling to survive. Usually
nothing it needs is provided for it to

588
00:46:40.320 --> 00:46:45.000
be perfect. But we've got it
around the wrong way. So what are

589
00:46:45.000 --> 00:46:47.880
you doing when you're setting goals,
you're giving thought for tomorrow, You're worrying

590
00:46:47.960 --> 00:46:52.079
about what to do and trying to
figure it out. You're not allowing this

591
00:46:52.199 --> 00:46:55.920
part of your brain to do the
work for you, to show you one

592
00:46:55.960 --> 00:47:00.400
step at a time. And when
you do that, that's when mirror show

593
00:47:00.480 --> 00:47:02.039
up and all of a sudden you
find yourself sailing on a yacht around the

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00:47:02.039 --> 00:47:09.360
world for eight years. You know, Okay, we have to go now,

595
00:47:09.480 --> 00:47:15.199
and our message is be not afraid. And I'm going to also turn

596
00:47:15.239 --> 00:47:22.000
off the news. And my question
to you before we go is how long

597
00:47:22.039 --> 00:47:25.760
are you going to be in Spain? And where are you going from there?

598
00:47:27.159 --> 00:47:30.480
Or do you even know? I
take it one step at a time.

599
00:47:30.840 --> 00:47:34.840
I can tell you what I'm doing
right now, which is talking to

600
00:47:34.880 --> 00:47:39.199
you, But I have no plans
other than that, okay, And the

601
00:47:39.199 --> 00:47:44.800
best thing that will be will show
up, And you know I have a

602
00:47:44.840 --> 00:47:47.599
million more questions to ask you,
so I hope you will come back and

603
00:47:47.719 --> 00:47:52.719
visit with us again. Maybe when
you get to wherever the next spot is,

604
00:47:53.440 --> 00:47:58.519
send me a message and we'll have
you back and talk about where you

605
00:47:58.599 --> 00:48:01.400
are in the world. Then.
I hope all of our listeners have gotten

606
00:48:01.400 --> 00:48:07.360
a lot out of this show.
I certainly have enjoyed it. Be not

607
00:48:07.840 --> 00:48:13.360
afraid what a wonderful message. Thank
you for entering the no Wine Zone with

608
00:48:13.480 --> 00:48:17.440
us today. And remember share our
show with everyone you know. And you

609
00:48:17.599 --> 00:48:24.960
have to remember stop whining and then
just go out, start smiling and be

610
00:48:25.400 --> 00:48:30.159
not afraid. And if that doesn't
work, then you can just start eating

611
00:48:30.360 --> 00:48:36.880
chocolate, lots and lots of chocolate. Thank you, Liam, it has

612
00:48:36.960 --> 00:48:42.559
been a delight having you back with
us again. And safe travels. Thank

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you very much for having me genuine
it's been wonderful to talk to you as

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well. Thank you, Take care
bye bye, Thank you too bye.

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We want to thank you for listening
to January Jones sharing success stories. Always

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remember miss Jones' personal mantra, if
you can think it, you can do

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it. That's what all of our
guests have done with their lives, and

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so can you. You are the
ultimate success coach in your own life.

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All you need to do will be
to start sharing your own story with your

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family and friends. We hope that
our guest stories will encourage you to explore

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an equation in your future that will
combine your creativity plus connecting with others will

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enable you to be successful too.
Always remembered, your passion plus your purpose

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will equal prosperity as you explore the
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