Aug. 22, 2024

January Jones sharing The Enlightened Passenger with Senior Author Corey Poirer

January Jones sharing The Enlightened Passenger with Senior Author Corey Poirer

Meet Corey Poirer senior author of The Enchanted Passenger

The Enlightened Passenger offers a roadmap to personal improvement, greater consciousness, and a deeper understanding of success and abundance for seniors and self-help enthusiasts,...

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Meet Corey Poirer senior author of The Enchanted Passenger

The Enlightened Passenger offers a roadmap to personal improvement, greater consciousness, and a deeper understanding of success and abundance for seniors and self-help enthusiasts, entrepreneurs,

It’s a story that resonates with anyone seeking to discover their purpose, create a lasting legacy, and transform their understanding of what it means to truly succeed in life.

MUST READ: THE ENLIGHTENED PASSENGER - COREY POIRER

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Who is January Jones. She is not a young, beautiful,

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talented actress on Madman. She is not an older, gorgeous

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exotic dancer from The Johnny Carson Show. She is an

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author and she wrote Thou Show Not Why the Eleventh

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Commandment that ates number one at Amazon dot com. She

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is a reality TV golf personality with World High Stakes

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Golf televised on hd Net. She is a huge wrist

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and why knowlogist expert. She is your featured host today

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on January Jones sharing success stories. So sit back, relax,

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and get ready to laugh and listen to Ms Jones

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with her eclectic roster of guests as you learn life's lessons.

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These stories plus sharing equal success. Welcome and remember beware

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because you are entering the no whining world of January Jones.

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Hello everyone, I hope you're having a glittery and glowing day.

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I'm January Jones and i'd like to welcome you to

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our podcast today. I'm so happy to announce I've created

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a new brand recently, glitter Granny Gibbs. I've now become

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an associate affiliate at Amazon in order to share with

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all of you other seniors who love to shop my

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glitter hats, my jewelry, my collections of canes, so many

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other things, along with my assistant, golden Doodle ginger Ale.

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You know, this past week was a big birthday weekend

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for me. I'm now officially eighty one. Oh my gosh, Yes,

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that's a big one for me. All my kids came

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to celebrate with us, and as you can see, they've

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added to my bling and it's been wonderful having them

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with us. Remember, it don't mean a thing if it

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ain't got that blink. Now, start to get ready, every

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other Granny out there, to glimmer and shimmer with me

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today and every day. Go to our website, start shopping

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and subscribe with us at glitter granny dot com. Now

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for my listeners, let me ask you a question. Are

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you a senior? Well, technically, anyone over fifty, according to AARP,

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is a senior, and a lot of people are soon

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to be seniors. Are you ready to become successful? Are

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you ready to try something new? Would you like to

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go on an enchanted journey today with us? Are you

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ready to meet someone who can share his personal success

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story with us today? Would you like to know how

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he did it and more importantly, why he did it? Now,

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let me ask you. Have you ever heard of a

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book called The Enchanted Passenger. Well, I've just read this

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book and you'll find this book on the front page

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of my website. I was so impressed with it. You know,

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even have my own books on the front page, so

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you can tell I really like this book. As to

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my questions, if you can answer yes or maybe, then

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you are in the right place and I'd like to

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welcome you to January Jones sharing senior success. Now it's

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time to rest. Go, get some wine, get some cheese,

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find some cracters, and join us in the no wine zone.

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Let me tell you a little bit about my guest today.

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He will share with us how to become successful despite

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discouraging odds and surviving economic and emotional storms. Along the way.

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He has interviewed over seven thousand of the world's top

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thought leaders to find the common threads among them. That's

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a pretty impressive number. My multi talented guest is the

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author of The Enchatted Passenger and many many other books.

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This is my pleasure to welcome to our show today,

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to our podcast, Cory poor Ri.

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A Hi, Cory, Jennyry. How are you doing today.

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I'm doing great. I'm so happy to have you. And

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I hope I said your name right, poor Ria.

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Yeah you did. That's I mentioned offer. That's as good

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as I can do, maybe a little better.

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Or is that a French name.

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It's very French, and the other side of my family

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is Ducet, which is as French. And I can speak

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about this many words of French. I'm only partially being

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sarcastic in the sense that I can probably say about

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eight words like I can say, uh, sale deb and

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I panci really flat, which is like I think, where's

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the bathroom?

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Co that's abod all I got?

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Okay? Well, I kind of figured you were French because

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when I was in Catholic elementary school, one of the

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little boys in our class, his name was James forty

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in a and once I heard his name, he was

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so cute. I knew you were going to be wonderful

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and I had a feeling you were going to be French.

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So let's talk a little bit about your success story,

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where you were born and who your early influences were.

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Yeah, so I guess if I start with where I

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was born, I was I grew up and was raised

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in a small town or city a town at the

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time in Canada. It's basically in the smallest province from

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the country. So it's called Princevard Island.

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It's a small little place called prince Verd Island. I

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always say it's like Hawaii eight months of the year

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and then like Alaska four months of the year.

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So I guess.

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But I mean, it really is a gorgeous place, Like

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right here in my office, I'm looking at the waterfront

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ship coming in in the summer. I mean, there's a

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beach every ten minutes. So it is a cool little place.

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But I grew up in the small town. I was

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raised by single mother, barely graduated high school. I got

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a forty nine plus one in a class that I

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needed at fifty in meeting the teacher allowed me to

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legally graduate. I didn't know the difference between fiction and

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nonfiction when I graduated, and I didn't read my first

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book until age twenty seven. So that's kind of a

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little bit about my origin story and where I've kind

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of started.

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Okay, that's fascinating. Not knowing the difference between fiction and nonfiction. Wow,

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you know, I personally I love nonfiction and most actually

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all my books are nonfiction. But this book that we're

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going to talk a bit about today, the Enchanted Passenger,

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that is definitely fiction. And share with us how you

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were inspired to write this book. Actually, how did it

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all come about for you?

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Yeah? I mean, you know, if I go again.

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There's real sort of long story short stories, so I'll

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go more of the short route. But essentially, I had

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asked this question literally thousands of times in interviews. Now

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here's the interesting part. People could figure it out by

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doing a bit of digging. I don't want to share

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the question because it reveals a big i'll call it

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a big twist in the book. So but the question,

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I started thinking, what if that was a book? Like,

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in other words, what if this question was a book?

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And that's kind of what stirred it in my head.

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And then I sat with it for quite some time.

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I didn't write a word for a year, but I

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had the idea. I knew that one of them. I

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knew what I knew the ending from the minute I

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decided on the idea. Then I knew the beginning shortly after,

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and then I get a piece together the middle. But

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I kind of just came up with different concepts and

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ideas and decided it would be set on a plane

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and things like that before I.

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Ever wrote a word.

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And then a year later, we went a family vacation

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to a cottage and my wife said, you know, you're

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not as big of a swimmer as us, Like the

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kids have become swimmers. She is, I was born on

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an island, and I've never learned to swim, and so

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I used to I love the beach, so I would

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sit on the beach and read or whatever while they

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were swimming in that he said, if you're going to

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be like, you're not going to come in the water

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with us anyway much so what if you were to

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work on that book, you keep you appen about.

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And a good idea.

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So when I say that, it was like whenever they

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were doing stuff that normally I wouldn't do anyway, why

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not work on the book? And so at that it

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was two weeks we were there and by the time

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we left ahead about half the book written. And then

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but then nothing happened again for like six seven months,

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and then I would start hacking away like five pages

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at a time, like it. It really took about a

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year to a year and a half, yeah, to write

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the book. And so now we're two years in from

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idea to finally writing a rough draft. The interesting part

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is that part. Some would call that slow, some would

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call it fast, depending on their perception of slow and fast.

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But the interesting part is from that point once I

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had a rough draft, until I held the book in

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my hand, was another only a year. And that's what

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the traditional publisher. So normally, even if you had a

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book that was already on the market and they decided

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to buy it, unless it was already selling you know,

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a million copies a week or something crazy, normally they

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would tell you it's going to be two years before

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the book's back in. So the idea of my book

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being out a year in my hand from rough draft

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is very abnormal. But I went to a publisher that

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I had worked with before, and I said, here's my

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business and marketing plan for the book, and whether you know,

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if you guys publish it, that's awesome. If you don't,

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that's cool too, But the book has to be out

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by this timeline. And the timeline was like four months later,

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so it was that's a quick timeline.

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Oh, I know, I know.

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They they gave me a timeline and said, look, I

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had to have i'd like the final edited version in.

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I think it was within thirty days of when I

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asked it four months, so everybody was working quick.

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And then we put the book up for a pre

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order on April first of this year.

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And so, to be honest, when I told him when

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I wanted to have the book online and when it

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was up was all in twenty twenty four.

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So everything I just told you happened in this year already.

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Wow, the book hit the market quote unquote on June

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twenty fifth. So I know your question was more about

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what inspired the book, but basically it was that question

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and then I said, how would that play out in

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a plane. And then what I did was I created

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two characters, younger person, old person. They sit next to

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each other on the plane by chance. The younger person

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is a business owner who thinks he knows or a

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salesperson who thinks he knows it all. The older person

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is a consultant, wiser business person who knows a little more.

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Than the younger guy.

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Essentially reluctantly because he wants to learn how the older

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guy made money, he listens to him, but what he

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learns is how to become a rich person through ten

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life lessons that the older gentleman had learned during interviews

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and time he spent with a lot of thought leaders.

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So I will tell you, January, it's a hollywood ized

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version of my life. And really I'm a part of

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both characters. I was the younger character when I was younger,

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and I'm maybe closer to the older character now that

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I'm a little older.

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Oh okay, well I'll have to share with you something. Also,

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I've written six or seven books now, and I know

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what you're talking about. The long process and most books

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worth a darn tak two to three years to get

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out there. It's nothing overnight, but your shirt came along quickly.

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That's amazing. And I was drawn to your book. We're

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airline people. My husband was an airline captain and I

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was a steward as many many years ago, and your

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selling it for you. Yeah, I have your I have

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these highly. Also, you can buy Corey's book right on

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the front page at this website. Corey, I've shared my

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website and how they can follow you?

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we get a lot of people anxious to read it.

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And the reason I want to sell it personally and

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recommend it personally is I finished reading it and we

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talk about in the book. You shared with us the

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ten rules to becoming rich and there. Some rules are

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for becoming rich in many different ways, aren't they.

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I mean, it may have been, but it wasn't planned.

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I guess the way I'll say it. But I for me,

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these lessons were learned during my interviews with the world's

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all say, many of the world's top thought leaders, and

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learned during one to one interviews. And so how I

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looked at this book is what are the ten things

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that if I were locked in a room with my

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kids for twenty four hours but that's all I had

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left to share what I've learned over the years, what

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are the ten lessons that I would share from the

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interviews I've done with my kids, So that I mean

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just to give some I guess backstory or context to

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the lessons, but the answer your question more directly. For

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the most part, most of them aren't directly about how

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do you become financially rich? But in my experience, if

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you follow a lot of them, abundance will follow. And

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so when I say abundance, I still do mean monetary,

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but I also mean just abundance in your life, like

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drawing stuff to your life but it's just important to

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note that the and I'll tell you where that came from,

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but the core focus is around what would make me

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a richer person than what is the things I wish

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I knew before I started my journey. But I think

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where this sort of came from, this idea that and

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it's even called The Flight that Changes Everything, and starts

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out with the idea that Robert wants to learn how

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to become more wealthy. Even though he's making good money,

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he's spending it as well. He want more of that.

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you keep as much as it is what you bring.

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In, but the money.

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he's going to learn how to make the money. Well, honestly,

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I didn't think at the time, but I've tried. I've

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probably pulled a lot of elements into this book from

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other areas. So where I think I pulled that from

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unconsciously is How Think and Grow Rich, which was the

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book that changed everything for me by Napoleon Hill. So

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they say over one hundred million people had bought that book,

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probably three hundred million of Reddit. And the thing about

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that book, which I find fascinating is when he launched

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it was during the depression. So it's of course a

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great idea to call a book how do I get

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rich during the depression.

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Because that's the money.

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that book, especially for being written in nineteen thirty seven,

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when you got inside that book, you realized, maybe not

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right away, this book isn't about becoming financially rich at all.

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This book is about becoming so rich that you're going

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to create abundance because you're doing what you love, you're

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doing it in the right way, and so he teaches

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you how to become abundant, but he tricks you in

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with the idea of becoming rich. And so here I

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almost took that in a meta way, the idea that

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Robert thinks he's buying the Think and Grow Rich book,

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which is I'm going to learn from this older guy

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who's going to teach me how to make But what

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he's really buying is what Think and Grow Rich really is,

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which is about how to become a richer person overall.

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believe as inspiration. I will say a little fun fact

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for listeners if they've heard the book Think and Grow Rich,

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it would be probably a good trivia thing. But I

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don't want to hold people up that long, so I'll

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just tell you the answer after I share this. People

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don't know what think and Grow Rich was originally called.

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So Think and Grow Rich wasn't the original title for

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the book. Have you ever heard this? You probably don't

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know the originally I haven't heard this on most people haven't.

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So the original title for the book was how to

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make a Boodle with your noodle?

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Oh, how perfect for that for that time in our

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country's history. Noodle. And of course, now I'm plain enough

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that with I'm using my doodle and all my promotions, you, I.

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Mean, you probably know a lot of people wouldn't know,

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Like I just barely caught this for my grandparents and stuff.

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like nobody uses that word today.

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and I think they were right because that would have

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been a great title at the time, and at the

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time it would have been the same title as Thinking

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courage because it basically saying how to make money with

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your head, which is thinking rich. But because of today,

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I don't think the book would have lasted because the

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term isn't used anymore.

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So I know how they could have brought They could

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bring it out again and throw in the noodles and

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the doodles and the poodles that are just taking over

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every advertising. That's why we're using my dog and my

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advertising because everyone loves these little doodle dogs. Let's talk

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about rule number one. And this is a rule that

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I have lived my life by and it is listen

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basically to your into wish and share rule number one

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with my guests.

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So I mean people have different well intuition of course

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as a part of it. I mean it's you know,

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you get this hit and what do you do with it? Yeah,

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I tell them all like godwinks and nudges. And the

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term I use in the book is synchronicity. The reason

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I use that term is and these are you know,

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what people know as coincidences. But I'll explain a different

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way to view that. But why I took that approach

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was because I did some work with a gentleman named

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James Redfield, who wrote The Celestine Prophecy, and that book

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was really the book that introduced or made the term

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famous synchronicity. So I felt I needed to pay homage

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to that. And in the book I talked the character

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talks about how he sat next to James on a plane,

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and so I kind of shared what I learned from

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James myself, but through the character. And because of that,

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I thought I should sick with the term synchronosity. Having

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said that these are so there's synchronicity, I think is

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part of the intuition side of things. So basically a

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synchronously is something you see happen and go, wow, there's

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meaning to that. Some people would say I saw see

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twelve twelve every day, or oh my gosh, I see

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red cars all the time.

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Whatever. It's like.

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You'll hear people say, I can't believe my mother loved butterflies,

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and this day I was struggling with her death, a

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butterfly came and landed my notes. You know that type

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of thing. But that's so the interesting part is I

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think they are two pieces. So that's the synchronousy, that's

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the thing that happened.

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Your euction is.

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What do you do with that nudge, like, what do

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you actually do now that you like? What's my intuition

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telling me to do now that I've seen that? So look,

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we talked about both, but I focus a lot on

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how to draw more synchronosities into your life because I

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believe either A when you acknowledge them and say I

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want these, universe gives you more, or B when you

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acknowledge them, you see the more often. I honestly don't

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know January, which of the true which of the two

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that really is, But I don't care because all I

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know is I.

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Get more of them.

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Basically, the coincidence aside. For people can struggle with this

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because they think that's just a coincidence. What I would

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suggest to them is, instead of using the term synchronicity,

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God winks or whatever you want to call it, why

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not use the term meaningful coincidences. Then we don't argue

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over whether or not it's a coincidence. Let's both call it

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a coincidence, but let's say this one has meaning to

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you and this one doesn't. And I think that way

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we can get away with debating whether or not it's

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really a coincidence. But unless Brown the Great speaker orator

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said to me that synchronicity is God's way of staying anonymous.

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Look at the concept of synchronicity, it's like these things

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are happening for us. It's like that whole statement is

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it happened to you or for you? And I think

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synchronicity is proof that the universe is doing stuff for us.

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So in the book, it's basically what it teaches you

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is that synchronicity is can be a real thing if

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you believe it is, and if you want to bring

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more of them into your life, you need to acknowledge them.

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the fact that I have a synchronicity journal, which is

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write down the things that happen and then I find

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I get more of them that way, and then talk

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about how you can act on them. So if you

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see a person three times four times, yeah, yeah, to

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ask them what message they had for you?

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universe will take time out and speak to you and

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sometimes if you're a little slow, they have to do

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it over and over and over. Now your second rule

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I really can relate to enjoying the journey and the destination.

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Now that my husband and I are just into our eighties,

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all of a sudden this has so much meaning for

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us and for a lot of our senior listeners. And

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it's also such an important rule in that you talk

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about random acts of kindness and this is something so

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essential to happiness in my opinion.

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Yeah, so I mean to that to your point about

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00:26:00.880 --> 00:26:06.680
the idea of enjoying the journey. Where this came from?

468
00:26:07.759 --> 00:26:11.680
For me at least is I And this is a big,

469
00:26:11.720 --> 00:26:13.599
big thing. And even in the book I didn't cover

470
00:26:13.680 --> 00:26:16.559
this enough, meaning eventually I may write a non fiction

471
00:26:16.680 --> 00:26:22.200
book just about this alone. But it's the idea of well,

472
00:26:22.240 --> 00:26:25.119
I call it next. So it's this idea that so

473
00:26:25.200 --> 00:26:28.440
many and here's the interesting car so many thought leaders

474
00:26:28.440 --> 00:26:30.519
that we look up to and say I want to

475
00:26:30.559 --> 00:26:33.000
be like them when I grow up. And the people

476
00:26:33.039 --> 00:26:35.880
are helping lots of people, impacting lives, doing amazing things.

477
00:26:36.200 --> 00:26:37.839
I get to interview a lot of them, and so

478
00:26:38.000 --> 00:26:41.319
many of them they are always thinking about what's next

479
00:26:41.359 --> 00:26:43.799
and never enjoying the what's happening now. And so what

480
00:26:43.839 --> 00:26:46.039
I mean by that is it's much like a person

481
00:26:46.319 --> 00:26:49.680
that buys the boat and then the day after says, ah,

482
00:26:49.799 --> 00:26:52.119
maybe I brought the wrong boat, and they think it's

483
00:26:52.160 --> 00:26:53.480
the bigger boat that's gonna make them happy.

484
00:26:53.519 --> 00:26:54.839
So they buy a bigger boat and it doesn't work,

485
00:26:54.839 --> 00:26:56.680
a bigger voat or a bigger car or what have you.

486
00:26:57.160 --> 00:27:00.640
And so that's the next thing. But here's what I

487
00:27:00.640 --> 00:27:03.480
find fascinating. It even happens with the achievement type things.

488
00:27:03.640 --> 00:27:06.079
So for example, me holding a book in my hand

489
00:27:06.480 --> 00:27:08.839
for when I was writing it earlier in my life.

490
00:27:08.839 --> 00:27:11.000
So I was the reason I spotted this is because

491
00:27:11.079 --> 00:27:13.359
I was doing it so earlier in my life. It

492
00:27:13.440 --> 00:27:16.000
was all about when the book comes out, I'll be happy.

493
00:27:18.119 --> 00:27:21.119
It's like, speaking on the senior side, how many people say,

494
00:27:21.119 --> 00:27:23.839
when I retire, then I'm going to start living what

495
00:27:24.240 --> 00:27:28.319
you know, like everything until then, And sadly, how many

496
00:27:28.319 --> 00:27:30.799
people do we see pass away not long after retiring.

497
00:27:31.160 --> 00:27:33.039
I think because even if they hated their job, it

498
00:27:33.079 --> 00:27:34.720
was a purpose they had to go to every day.

499
00:27:35.720 --> 00:27:38.640
Having said that, what this this argument is I'm making

500
00:27:38.680 --> 00:27:41.720
the argument for in the book is what if really

501
00:27:42.480 --> 00:27:45.720
the journey is the destination? So what does that mean

502
00:27:45.839 --> 00:27:48.559
in the real world? What it means is instead of

503
00:27:48.599 --> 00:27:50.599
the destination being the book I'm holding in my hands.

504
00:27:50.920 --> 00:27:54.000
What if he was coming up with the idea what

505
00:27:54.079 --> 00:27:55.920
if the journey was writing the book. What if the

506
00:27:56.000 --> 00:27:58.160
journey was talking about the book on shows like now.

507
00:27:58.319 --> 00:28:00.839
What if the journey was the invis I did to

508
00:28:00.880 --> 00:28:02.440
get the insight for the book, And I could go

509
00:28:02.480 --> 00:28:07.519
on and on. But what if during that all those things,

510
00:28:07.559 --> 00:28:10.160
what if the journey was what if that's also the destination?

511
00:28:10.680 --> 00:28:13.839
So whenever I do this interview, what if I could

512
00:28:13.880 --> 00:28:16.799
be fulfilled by this instead of waiting till the books

513
00:28:17.359 --> 00:28:20.960
what if I could be fulfilled by sending the book

514
00:28:21.000 --> 00:28:23.839
to the editor and getting their feedback versus just holding

515
00:28:23.839 --> 00:28:25.559
the book in my hand. So what this does for

516
00:28:25.599 --> 00:28:28.519
me now is I have a whole bunch of little destinations.

517
00:28:29.480 --> 00:28:32.200
I can actually be happy in the moment versus waiting

518
00:28:32.279 --> 00:28:34.680
until some far off point that usually doesn't happen. And

519
00:28:34.720 --> 00:28:37.400
why I said next is because here's the part that's interesting.

520
00:28:37.640 --> 00:28:39.519
When this occurred to me was when I finally held

521
00:28:39.559 --> 00:28:41.880
the first book that I was waiting for in my hand,

522
00:28:41.920 --> 00:28:45.720
not this book, a previous one, and I went that's it, okay,

523
00:28:47.480 --> 00:28:49.200
literally was I didn't even sit in it for a

524
00:28:49.319 --> 00:28:52.559
minute and I thought I was abnormal, but I noticed

525
00:28:52.559 --> 00:28:54.680
when I interviewed thought leaders, most of them did the same.

526
00:28:55.119 --> 00:28:56.960
And so I'm starting to advocate for instead of trying

527
00:28:57.000 --> 00:28:59.279
to change that, maybe that's the way I'm built. Instead

528
00:28:59.279 --> 00:29:00.880
of trying to change that, why don't I just start

529
00:29:00.920 --> 00:29:04.079
figuring out how to enjoy the other moments? And I

530
00:29:04.119 --> 00:29:07.680
will say I interviewed a guy named doctor Nader who

531
00:29:07.759 --> 00:29:10.799
was He actually had the torch passed to him from

532
00:29:11.079 --> 00:29:15.119
the Maharishi, and so these guys really studied happiness fulfillment,

533
00:29:15.119 --> 00:29:17.319
what have you? And he told me, in all the

534
00:29:17.319 --> 00:29:20.960
studies they've done, they discovered that humans mostly for the

535
00:29:20.960 --> 00:29:23.680
most part, aren't happy unless they're always chasing something new,

536
00:29:23.720 --> 00:29:26.240
like another carit And so that put in my head

537
00:29:26.240 --> 00:29:28.680
that why am I trying to make people force people

538
00:29:28.759 --> 00:29:31.799
to be happy with the destination. Maybe the happiness is

539
00:29:31.839 --> 00:29:32.319
the chase?

540
00:29:33.079 --> 00:29:35.359
Yes, yes, absolutely, this.

541
00:29:35.440 --> 00:29:36.839
Is the chase. So the journey.

542
00:29:37.279 --> 00:29:39.119
You could use a different word and say the chase.

543
00:29:39.440 --> 00:29:42.200
So what if the chase is where it's at instead

544
00:29:42.200 --> 00:29:42.759
of the catch?

545
00:29:43.240 --> 00:29:47.640
Yeah? And then I think as people get along in life,

546
00:29:47.680 --> 00:29:50.880
they start to realize what you're saying is so true,

547
00:29:51.160 --> 00:29:54.279
And you know, just like you. I have a book

548
00:29:54.319 --> 00:29:58.279
coming out this coming week at Amazon. And the interesting

549
00:29:58.440 --> 00:30:01.799
thing about my book is I thought about this book

550
00:30:02.200 --> 00:30:06.160
thirty years ago and the publisher I wanted to call

551
00:30:06.240 --> 00:30:11.559
it Dying Without Whining, and the publishers, several of them, no, no, no,

552
00:30:11.640 --> 00:30:14.640
it's too depressing, no one will ever want to read it.

553
00:30:14.839 --> 00:30:18.440
So I changed it to bau shall not whine, the

554
00:30:18.519 --> 00:30:23.400
eleventh Commandment, which went to number one, interestingly enough in

555
00:30:23.599 --> 00:30:29.680
religion and humor. So now fast forward thirty years later,

556
00:30:29.799 --> 00:30:33.079
I still wanted to write that book, so I created

557
00:30:33.160 --> 00:30:37.759
a new title for it, and it's called Living Without

558
00:30:38.079 --> 00:30:43.039
Dying Thirty Years of Magical Moments.

559
00:30:44.319 --> 00:30:45.079
Oh, I love it.

560
00:30:46.519 --> 00:30:55.720
Introducing Living and Dying Without Whining, a memoir eighty Years

561
00:30:55.759 --> 00:31:02.640
of Magical Moments written by January Jones. Miss Jones shares

562
00:31:02.960 --> 00:31:11.039
her most exciting and magical moments. Patriotic moments landing on

563
00:31:11.240 --> 00:31:18.839
aircraft carrier USS Carl Vincent, staying overnight then catapulting off,

564
00:31:20.480 --> 00:31:29.440
revealing moments working for the CIA for five years, Thrilling

565
00:31:30.039 --> 00:31:37.839
and comforting moments meeting Charles Lindbergh and Neil Armstrong together,

566
00:31:39.759 --> 00:31:49.000
sassy moments, swinging sixties and the seventies, the Age of Aquarius.

567
00:31:49.039 --> 00:31:55.799
Exciting moments as a TV contestant on Jokers, Wild and

568
00:31:56.279 --> 00:32:01.880
Family Feud, Reality moments playing.

569
00:32:01.599 --> 00:32:06.960
In the World Series of Golf on Reality TV, Career

570
00:32:07.119 --> 00:32:15.400
moments as a stewardess for Eastern Airlines, Touching moments with

571
00:32:15.599 --> 00:32:20.599
meeting a half brother she never knew about, with many

572
00:32:20.640 --> 00:32:27.839
many more magical moments. Living and Dying Without Whining. A

573
00:32:28.000 --> 00:32:34.759
memoir eighty Years of Magical Moments written by January Jones,

574
00:32:35.640 --> 00:32:44.200
available at Amazon dot com and Audible dot com.

575
00:32:44.559 --> 00:32:48.359
Welcome back, Corey. I had so much fun writing my book.

576
00:32:48.480 --> 00:32:51.319
You know, when you get to be my age, the

577
00:32:51.359 --> 00:32:53.640
best thing about it is you can say or do

578
00:32:53.759 --> 00:32:59.599
anything you want. And you know what, I'm realizing, I'm

579
00:32:59.599 --> 00:33:01.799
gonna have to have you back because I think the

580
00:33:01.839 --> 00:33:04.240
way this show is going, we're only going to get

581
00:33:04.359 --> 00:33:08.880
through the first five rules that you've created. And number

582
00:33:09.000 --> 00:33:13.480
three is no to things that won't move the needle.

583
00:33:13.640 --> 00:33:15.960
Oh my gosh, what a good rule that is.

584
00:33:17.160 --> 00:33:20.000
Well, I mean so thank you first of all, so much.

585
00:33:20.119 --> 00:33:24.400
And I will say that, you know, people ask me

586
00:33:24.559 --> 00:33:29.119
often what in terms of what one do I want

587
00:33:29.160 --> 00:33:31.160
to pick? What one do I want to talk about?

588
00:33:31.200 --> 00:33:32.920
Like if they only have time. Let's say talk about

589
00:33:32.920 --> 00:33:35.559
one rule. This is the one I've been using as

590
00:33:35.599 --> 00:33:37.880
a go to for a while now, I think it

591
00:33:38.119 --> 00:33:40.720
and the reason is it's one of the ones where

592
00:33:40.759 --> 00:33:43.000
I think, I believe all of these you can see

593
00:33:43.079 --> 00:33:44.559
quick results with them if you.

594
00:33:44.559 --> 00:33:45.799
Start applying to your life.

595
00:33:45.920 --> 00:33:49.160
But this one is very particular because some of the

596
00:33:49.160 --> 00:33:51.920
other ones, like some people might struggle in one area,

597
00:33:51.920 --> 00:33:53.599
but they really do enjoy the journey, you know, the

598
00:33:53.599 --> 00:33:55.279
one we talked about, like some people are just happy

599
00:33:55.319 --> 00:33:55.839
all the time.

600
00:33:56.160 --> 00:33:56.880
Yeah, this is one.

601
00:33:57.160 --> 00:33:59.799
A person can be happy all the time and also

602
00:34:00.000 --> 00:34:02.680
people pleaser and also struggle with overwhelmed because they say

603
00:34:02.759 --> 00:34:06.440
yes too much. And so this one here was fascinating

604
00:34:06.440 --> 00:34:09.000
for me. How I learned it because when I was younger,

605
00:34:09.239 --> 00:34:12.800
my grandfather, carpenter with a grade three education, built a

606
00:34:12.800 --> 00:34:16.280
fiberglass Space shuttle replica at to scale. You know, I

607
00:34:16.320 --> 00:34:19.320
looked up to him my whole life and he was

608
00:34:19.360 --> 00:34:22.960
like a father to me and I people say who

609
00:34:23.000 --> 00:34:26.079
is the wisest mentor he had? I cite him often. However,

610
00:34:26.320 --> 00:34:28.559
having said all that, he lived a different life than me.

611
00:34:28.639 --> 00:34:31.800
So he was a carpenter, he worked locally, for clients

612
00:34:32.239 --> 00:34:34.039
and they would say can you do this, Eddie, And

613
00:34:34.079 --> 00:34:38.159
he would just say yes to everything because he felt

614
00:34:38.159 --> 00:34:41.400
that that was the way to keep clients happy, you know,

615
00:34:41.519 --> 00:34:43.159
is to always help and go above and beyond.

616
00:34:43.480 --> 00:34:44.880
Now they loved him.

617
00:34:44.920 --> 00:34:46.800
They weren't asking him to do say anything unreasonable, but

618
00:34:46.840 --> 00:34:48.440
they would say, can you, Eddie, while you're here, can

619
00:34:48.440 --> 00:34:50.079
you also do this? They'd be like yep, Like he

620
00:34:50.159 --> 00:34:52.559
never said no. So he always said to me, not always,

621
00:34:52.599 --> 00:34:54.920
but he said to me at times, say yes to everything,

622
00:34:54.960 --> 00:34:57.519
and that'll treat you well in life. And so I

623
00:34:57.599 --> 00:35:00.719
that was kind of what I went out with. Now

624
00:35:00.760 --> 00:35:03.639
sometimes we forget that's whyse advice if I was following

625
00:35:03.679 --> 00:35:07.159
his career path and his life. But it depends on

626
00:35:07.719 --> 00:35:10.039
your life. It depends on your friends because you might

627
00:35:10.039 --> 00:35:11.960
be that yes person, but you might have friends that

628
00:35:12.039 --> 00:35:14.239
take advantage of that. So there's a lot of variables

629
00:35:14.280 --> 00:35:16.039
you have to factor in. And then I'll tell you

630
00:35:16.079 --> 00:35:19.320
what compounded it more January is I heard this quote

631
00:35:19.639 --> 00:35:23.800
that was misquoted, like paraphrased by Richard Branson, and it

632
00:35:23.880 --> 00:35:26.800
said say yes to everything and figured how to do

633
00:35:26.800 --> 00:35:29.039
it later. So then I'm like, now I'm really perplexed

634
00:35:29.039 --> 00:35:31.039
because my grandfather said it, and now Richard Branson, who's

635
00:35:31.079 --> 00:35:34.119
juggling two hundreds on businesses, it's said everything. I'm like,

636
00:35:34.159 --> 00:35:36.880
what am I missing here? And then the original quote

637
00:35:36.880 --> 00:35:38.960
and it said something to the effective, say us to

638
00:35:39.000 --> 00:35:43.480
everything you love, figure out how to do it, and

639
00:35:43.599 --> 00:35:47.599
those words were pretty significant. So that's one thing. And

640
00:35:47.639 --> 00:35:49.679
then on top of that, I started doing all these

641
00:35:49.679 --> 00:35:52.880
interviews and over and over again. Not only were people

642
00:35:52.920 --> 00:35:56.119
telling me that you need to say no more often

643
00:35:56.119 --> 00:35:58.239
when you get busier, but they were doing it to me.

644
00:35:58.599 --> 00:36:00.840
So I was saying, like I was getting meaning, I

645
00:36:00.880 --> 00:36:02.920
was trying to get interviews and they're like no, sorry, no, sorry,

646
00:36:02.960 --> 00:36:05.159
And I'm like, wait a minute, I'm watching it happen.

647
00:36:05.480 --> 00:36:08.719
They're saying no because they can't take on everything, and

648
00:36:09.360 --> 00:36:12.039
I'm not a good fit. And so I started analyzing

649
00:36:12.079 --> 00:36:13.800
it and I noticed it was one of the common

650
00:36:14.079 --> 00:36:16.599
traits that the top achievers had in common is they

651
00:36:16.639 --> 00:36:19.320
said no like twenty to fifty times more than the

652
00:36:19.320 --> 00:36:23.000
average person. So I need to start practicing it. But

653
00:36:23.079 --> 00:36:25.079
why I think it's such a significant one is because

654
00:36:25.079 --> 00:36:27.199
a lot of people don't practice it, and a lot

655
00:36:27.239 --> 00:36:29.800
of people feel guilty with the idea of even saying no.

656
00:36:30.280 --> 00:36:32.840
So what I tried to start doing is learning how

657
00:36:32.880 --> 00:36:34.960
you could say no in a way that wouldn't burn

658
00:36:34.960 --> 00:36:37.000
a bridge, and how you could even figure out what

659
00:36:37.000 --> 00:36:40.000
a yes and I no is. So look, we talk

660
00:36:40.039 --> 00:36:43.039
about the importance of writing a personal mission statement, because

661
00:36:43.400 --> 00:36:45.199
when you know what your mission statement is, or what

662
00:36:45.239 --> 00:36:47.400
your mission is, even if you're a parent, stay at

663
00:36:47.400 --> 00:36:49.239
home parent, when you know what your mission is, you

664
00:36:49.280 --> 00:36:50.920
know pretty quickly what a yes and I know is.

665
00:36:51.119 --> 00:36:54.440
So if you say I want to be the best

666
00:36:54.440 --> 00:36:57.400
parent in the world and somebody is trying to convince

667
00:36:57.400 --> 00:36:58.960
you to leave your kids and go help them move

668
00:36:58.960 --> 00:37:00.440
a coach and leave your kids a home alone and

669
00:37:00.480 --> 00:37:03.119
your kids are six, well you know pretty quickly that

670
00:37:03.159 --> 00:37:05.960
goes against your mission, so it becomes an easy no.

671
00:37:06.840 --> 00:37:09.639
So one thing is when you had that dialed in,

672
00:37:10.000 --> 00:37:12.000
then you quickly start seeing yes as and no. So

673
00:37:12.159 --> 00:37:16.320
like mine is to be the guy that motivates, donates, educates, entertains,

674
00:37:16.360 --> 00:37:19.679
and inspires. And so he asked me to take on something.

675
00:37:19.960 --> 00:37:22.599
If it's only three of those or two or one

676
00:37:23.199 --> 00:37:26.079
or zero, it's an easy no. If it's four or five,

677
00:37:26.159 --> 00:37:28.719
it usually is an easy yes without regret. So having

678
00:37:28.719 --> 00:37:30.760
a mission statement allows me to figure out quickly what

679
00:37:30.800 --> 00:37:33.039
I know and yes is. But then on top of that,

680
00:37:33.840 --> 00:37:37.199
how I say no without burning a bridge is? I

681
00:37:37.280 --> 00:37:41.000
learned this from Saline Johnson of Turbo Jampaign. And when

682
00:37:41.039 --> 00:37:45.280
I interviewed Shalen, she was busy. She had six hundred

683
00:37:45.280 --> 00:37:47.800
I think locations where they're teaching turbo jam across North

684
00:37:47.840 --> 00:37:51.199
America and the ones local they would ask her to

685
00:37:51.199 --> 00:37:53.599
fill in for their classes, and she was too busy,

686
00:37:54.000 --> 00:37:56.639
and so she kept saying yes. And then eventually she

687
00:37:56.760 --> 00:37:58.840
realized she had to start saying no. Because this is

688
00:37:58.880 --> 00:38:00.800
something I learned long ago is everything you say yes

689
00:38:00.840 --> 00:38:03.000
to is a note of something else, And so she

690
00:38:03.119 --> 00:38:05.000
was saying yes to it, which is mean saying no

691
00:38:05.079 --> 00:38:09.159
to her family. So she look, we're a very family

692
00:38:09.199 --> 00:38:12.159
oriented company. I need to ask my husband, Brett, if

693
00:38:12.199 --> 00:38:13.960
we have anything in the go before I say yes

694
00:38:14.039 --> 00:38:15.760
or no? Is it okay if I get back you

695
00:38:15.760 --> 00:38:17.639
in a couple of days and if I can't do it,

696
00:38:17.639 --> 00:38:19.639
I'll find somebody else to help you. Well, how do

697
00:38:19.639 --> 00:38:21.639
you get manned somebody for that? So she would do it,

698
00:38:21.880 --> 00:38:24.320
and she would say ninety percent of the time. When

699
00:38:24.360 --> 00:38:26.000
she get back in two days, we're like, oh, never mind,

700
00:38:26.000 --> 00:38:26.840
I already forget that out.

701
00:38:28.119 --> 00:38:30.639
Yeah, okay, that's that's so true.

702
00:38:30.760 --> 00:38:31.960
That's so true.

703
00:38:32.639 --> 00:38:36.119
Oh my gosh. Yeah. And you know that's actually how

704
00:38:36.239 --> 00:38:40.079
I'm back doing podcasts TV podcast because I had gone

705
00:38:40.079 --> 00:38:44.360
on hiatus and then the pandemic came and I was

706
00:38:44.480 --> 00:38:49.679
like everyone else, letting my hair go natural. Found out

707
00:38:49.760 --> 00:38:54.400
it was white. Wow, And so then the pandemic was over,

708
00:38:54.599 --> 00:38:58.480
and I thought, gosh, I really enjoy talking to other people.

709
00:38:59.039 --> 00:39:02.599
I enjoy sharing stories with other seniors. So it was

710
00:39:02.639 --> 00:39:08.039
easy that to say yes to doing this. And your

711
00:39:08.199 --> 00:39:12.400
number four rule is one we live by every day.

712
00:39:13.599 --> 00:39:17.840
It's live every day like it's your last, but not

713
00:39:18.679 --> 00:39:21.800
plan like it's not your last. And when you're eighty,

714
00:39:21.960 --> 00:39:24.280
most days you think are your last. So it's an

715
00:39:24.280 --> 00:39:27.320
easy one for us to do. But for younger people

716
00:39:27.400 --> 00:39:29.239
that's a little more difficult, isn't it.

717
00:39:29.960 --> 00:39:34.559
Yeah? It sure is. I mean where so where?

718
00:39:34.599 --> 00:39:37.280
And this not necessarily why I put it in the

719
00:39:37.280 --> 00:39:39.199
book or where it came from for the book. But

720
00:39:39.239 --> 00:39:41.400
there's a great quote by Gandhi that says kind of

721
00:39:41.440 --> 00:39:44.679
what you just said, live like every day is your

722
00:39:44.760 --> 00:39:48.400
last but prepare like it's not essentially in a nutshell.

723
00:39:48.760 --> 00:39:51.320
And so that's kind of the approach I took, which

724
00:39:51.400 --> 00:39:55.280
is that what if I'll even depose ourselves. So this

725
00:39:55.360 --> 00:39:57.920
is the exercise you could do. Pose the question yourself

726
00:39:58.000 --> 00:40:00.239
if it was my last day, and then make a

727
00:40:00.280 --> 00:40:01.679
list what are the things I would do on that

728
00:40:01.800 --> 00:40:04.880
last day? And then obviously you're not going to do

729
00:40:04.920 --> 00:40:06.679
a groundhog day and try to live that exact same

730
00:40:06.760 --> 00:40:09.079
day every day. But if you give just the fifteen

731
00:40:09.119 --> 00:40:10.960
things you love doing and that you would do in

732
00:40:11.000 --> 00:40:12.760
your last day, why not try to do one of

733
00:40:12.800 --> 00:40:16.920
those every day? So that's exercise, but it is the

734
00:40:17.000 --> 00:40:20.239
question of if it was your last day, and I

735
00:40:20.280 --> 00:40:22.639
recommend people make a list or sit down and say

736
00:40:22.679 --> 00:40:23.920
what would I do on my last day if I

737
00:40:23.920 --> 00:40:27.719
only had one day left? And what we can talk

738
00:40:27.760 --> 00:40:30.440
to this because I kind of build on this with

739
00:40:30.519 --> 00:40:33.320
the idea of the Mayfly. And I can't remember if

740
00:40:33.320 --> 00:40:36.679
it's the next chapter or which lesson it is, but

741
00:40:36.920 --> 00:40:39.159
I'll add to this, so I'll say the Mayfly. I

742
00:40:39.239 --> 00:40:41.079
never thought in a million years I would name a

743
00:40:41.119 --> 00:40:44.000
title of a chapter the Mayfly. And this isn't related

744
00:40:44.039 --> 00:40:46.199
to the boat that existed I think called the mayfly.

745
00:40:46.800 --> 00:40:50.360
This is the actual little fly. And where concept came

746
00:40:50.400 --> 00:40:52.000
from for me is I was watching an episode of

747
00:40:52.039 --> 00:40:54.800
Everybody Loves Raymond just as back my Noise, and I

748
00:40:54.840 --> 00:40:57.000
heard the older brother, I think he's older, but Robert

749
00:40:57.239 --> 00:41:00.920
said something about the mayfly and how short it lives

750
00:41:00.960 --> 00:41:03.360
and anyway, and I started researching it, and I was

751
00:41:03.400 --> 00:41:06.880
fascinated because the male mayfly lives twenty four hours, and

752
00:41:06.960 --> 00:41:10.079
so all it is during that day is live on purpose.

753
00:41:10.119 --> 00:41:12.079
It just does whatever its purpose is and then finishes

754
00:41:12.119 --> 00:41:14.320
a day. But really it's doing what it would do

755
00:41:14.360 --> 00:41:18.039
on its last day. But then I'll add in this,

756
00:41:18.079 --> 00:41:19.960
but I knew this wouldn't work. Is then I found it.

757
00:41:20.000 --> 00:41:22.000
The female may fly only lives three to five minutes

758
00:41:24.159 --> 00:41:27.280
peral purpose is then give birth to other mayflies. But

759
00:41:27.960 --> 00:41:29.639
having said that, I knew I couldn't say what would

760
00:41:29.639 --> 00:41:30.960
you do in your last three to five minutes? It's

761
00:41:30.960 --> 00:41:34.280
too short a time. Yeah, it's always twenty four hours.

762
00:41:34.519 --> 00:41:36.519
But this really ties into what we're talking about. So

763
00:41:36.920 --> 00:41:39.159
live like the mayfly, figure out what would you would do?

764
00:41:39.280 --> 00:41:41.440
It only tends twenty four hours, it lives on purpose?

765
00:41:41.760 --> 00:41:44.000
What is your on purpose for those twenty four hours

766
00:41:44.079 --> 00:41:46.519
and then if you can figure that out, incorporates some

767
00:41:46.559 --> 00:41:47.599
of that in your day, and I think it will

768
00:41:47.599 --> 00:41:49.519
have a bigger smile most days when you wake up.

769
00:41:49.960 --> 00:41:54.000
Oh yeah. And speaking of smiles, that's one of my mantras.

770
00:41:54.039 --> 00:41:57.000
And I think when we were talking about random acts,

771
00:41:57.239 --> 00:42:04.039
I also suggest everyone smile randomly at everyone you see

772
00:42:04.079 --> 00:42:10.239
coming and going. And guess what, it's contagious. They all smile.

773
00:42:10.679 --> 00:42:14.119
You know. The book, my book that's coming out, basically

774
00:42:14.199 --> 00:42:18.559
I wrote it for my children, but mostly my seven grandchildren.

775
00:42:19.400 --> 00:42:24.800
And you talk about mindset is everything, and I think

776
00:42:24.880 --> 00:42:29.199
the theme throughout my book, Living and Dying Without Whining

777
00:42:29.519 --> 00:42:33.320
is if you think it, you can do it.

778
00:42:33.760 --> 00:42:39.000
Yes, yeah, it's uh. I love that there was a quote.

779
00:42:39.159 --> 00:42:41.280
Again you could tell probably I'm a fan of certain books,

780
00:42:41.280 --> 00:42:43.360
but there was a quote by Napoleon Hill and think

781
00:42:43.400 --> 00:42:45.239
you were rich. I think it's probably one of the

782
00:42:45.239 --> 00:42:47.480
most famous quotes from the book. And you know, I

783
00:42:47.519 --> 00:42:51.440
love how like Jack Hanfield from Chicken Soup with the Soul, Yeah,

784
00:42:52.039 --> 00:42:54.360
I do different teachings. And then my friend Tiffany was

785
00:42:54.400 --> 00:42:55.920
a train the trainer with Jack and she's like, oh,

786
00:42:56.000 --> 00:42:57.920
Jack does that and I never knew he did it,

787
00:42:57.960 --> 00:43:00.000
like it's it's wild how we come around to say

788
00:43:00.000 --> 00:43:03.000
similar things which tell That's why I call one of

789
00:43:03.000 --> 00:43:06.360
my talks the Timeless Secrets of Influential Leaders, because it's

790
00:43:06.400 --> 00:43:09.199
gamless like what Napoleon Hill taught in nineteen thirty seven.

791
00:43:09.280 --> 00:43:12.599
I'm still figuring out and learning today at the same

792
00:43:12.719 --> 00:43:14.800
things he discovered. But one of the quotes he had

793
00:43:14.840 --> 00:43:17.440
that I thought was brilliant and said, now he said man,

794
00:43:17.480 --> 00:43:19.639
because not sadly, in nineteen thirty seven it was always

795
00:43:19.679 --> 00:43:22.480
men quoted, only men. But he said, whatever the mind

796
00:43:22.519 --> 00:43:25.199
of the man can conceive. And I'll say, and woman,

797
00:43:25.719 --> 00:43:29.679
whatever the mind of the man can conceive and believe

798
00:43:30.280 --> 00:43:31.079
he can achieve.

799
00:43:31.519 --> 00:43:34.559
Oh h oh, yeah, and so me.

800
00:43:34.679 --> 00:43:37.320
And it works female or men. But that but that quote,

801
00:43:37.320 --> 00:43:38.599
when you said that, it makes me think of that

802
00:43:38.679 --> 00:43:43.079
quote because I do believe. Yeah, I don't believe it.

803
00:43:43.159 --> 00:43:44.840
So this is going to be a unique thing to say.

804
00:43:44.880 --> 00:43:48.440
But I don't believe in absolutes. But whenever we say

805
00:43:48.440 --> 00:43:51.599
all things are possible, I believe almost all things are possible.

806
00:43:51.840 --> 00:43:54.559
When we say that is impossible, I believe that almost

807
00:43:54.559 --> 00:43:57.679
nothing is impossible. The reason I say that is. I

808
00:43:57.719 --> 00:44:00.159
think when you use an absolute nine times in ten,

809
00:44:00.199 --> 00:44:02.119
you're going to be wrong. Like if you say nobody

810
00:44:02.199 --> 00:44:04.920
likes the show, well, obviously more than one person's watching

811
00:44:04.960 --> 00:44:06.559
it wouldn't be in the air. So but people do

812
00:44:06.639 --> 00:44:09.320
that all the time. They'll say nobody, everybody, and one

813
00:44:09.320 --> 00:44:12.559
of the other ones is nothing is impossible? Well yes

814
00:44:12.679 --> 00:44:16.920
or no. I mean I can not including astral projection.

815
00:44:17.239 --> 00:44:18.719
But if you're standing in front of me right now,

816
00:44:18.760 --> 00:44:20.800
I can argue there's zero way that you can jump

817
00:44:20.880 --> 00:44:22.440
from your feet up to the moon and come back

818
00:44:22.440 --> 00:44:28.559
down again in one second. So far that has possible.

819
00:44:28.599 --> 00:44:31.159
It may be possible someday. But that's why I say,

820
00:44:31.440 --> 00:44:34.280
I do believe. There's a few random things that aren't possible,

821
00:44:34.320 --> 00:44:36.679
but I believe for the most part, if we can

822
00:44:36.800 --> 00:44:37.280
dream it.

823
00:44:37.280 --> 00:44:41.440
Up, yeah, believe it. Well. I found from in my

824
00:44:41.519 --> 00:44:45.760
own life that something that I thought was impossible became possible.

825
00:44:45.920 --> 00:44:50.320
Even at eighty, I've been able to lose thirty pounds

826
00:44:50.360 --> 00:44:53.800
this year. Oh wow, what a change, What a change

827
00:44:53.840 --> 00:44:57.920
in my health. And then you talk about will it

828
00:44:58.079 --> 00:45:01.719
matter in five to ten years when you're making these

829
00:45:01.880 --> 00:45:04.440
decisions about what to do and what not to do.

830
00:45:05.000 --> 00:45:08.719
For us, it's will it matter in five or ten months.

831
00:45:08.960 --> 00:45:14.039
It's a shorter period, much more intense. And you also

832
00:45:14.199 --> 00:45:19.119
suggest taking a news detox. That is such a good

833
00:45:19.159 --> 00:45:20.519
suggestion for everyone.

834
00:45:21.440 --> 00:45:23.960
Yeah, well, I mean they tell you the news detox.

835
00:45:24.000 --> 00:45:25.719
But I'll also add to what you just said as well.

836
00:45:26.000 --> 00:45:29.360
I frame that will it matter in two ways?

837
00:45:29.360 --> 00:45:29.519
Though.

838
00:45:29.519 --> 00:45:31.880
The other way I frame it is this stuff that

839
00:45:31.880 --> 00:45:34.639
you're worried about now, like the stuff that you're losing sleepover.

840
00:45:35.079 --> 00:45:37.280
If you honestly sit there and say in a year,

841
00:45:37.760 --> 00:45:40.119
you'll still be losing sleep over the same thing, right,

842
00:45:40.400 --> 00:45:43.400
if you can maybe explore further, But ninety nine percent

843
00:45:43.400 --> 00:45:46.239
of the time what you're dreading today won't matter in

844
00:45:46.280 --> 00:45:48.519
a year. A lot of times it won't matter in

845
00:45:48.559 --> 00:45:52.280
a week. But yeah, you're for a lack of This

846
00:45:52.320 --> 00:45:55.079
is a bad visual probably, But Michael J. Fox, I remember,

847
00:45:55.079 --> 00:45:59.280
I love this. Coody said, when you're worried about tomorrow

848
00:45:59.320 --> 00:46:02.199
and yesterday and you have one put in tomorrow, one

849
00:46:02.199 --> 00:46:09.199
foot yesterday, you're really peeing all over today's I love

850
00:46:09.239 --> 00:46:11.519
that idea that because that's what we're doing. So the

851
00:46:11.559 --> 00:46:13.800
point is I use that in two ways. One is

852
00:46:14.400 --> 00:46:16.480
what you're worried about now, will it actually matter in

853
00:46:16.519 --> 00:46:18.760
five months or five years or whatever that timeline is

854
00:46:18.760 --> 00:46:22.559
for you. The news detox came about because my mother

855
00:46:23.159 --> 00:46:25.599
was diagnosed with cervical cancer a number of years ago,

856
00:46:25.840 --> 00:46:28.159
like almost twenty years ago, and she went to see

857
00:46:28.159 --> 00:46:31.360
her doctor after she was diagnosed, and he wrote on

858
00:46:31.400 --> 00:46:33.679
a prescription pad in front of her, just like doctors do,

859
00:46:34.079 --> 00:46:36.400
handed it to her and it was folded up. She

860
00:46:36.480 --> 00:46:38.079
never looked at it until she got to the car.

861
00:46:38.400 --> 00:46:40.079
We figured we're gonna have to go to the pharmacy

862
00:46:40.119 --> 00:46:42.079
to pick up something. She opened up and what it

863
00:46:42.159 --> 00:46:44.519
said on that prescription pad, what the doctor's name was,

864
00:46:45.079 --> 00:46:46.599
don't watch them read the news anymore.

865
00:46:50.079 --> 00:46:51.559
That's where the idea came from.

866
00:46:51.599 --> 00:46:55.079
So then she went back and asked them, and he said,

867
00:46:55.280 --> 00:46:57.440
I found that my patients that don't watch or read

868
00:46:57.480 --> 00:47:00.440
the news as much have a better chance conquering cancer.

869
00:47:00.639 --> 00:47:02.280
So then what I said to my mom is maybe

870
00:47:02.280 --> 00:47:04.280
we should go on a twenty one day news detalks now.

871
00:47:04.599 --> 00:47:08.159
And we all days, and that was twenty years ago.

872
00:47:08.199 --> 00:47:09.719
We haven't stopped yet, so we're on a twenty one

873
00:47:09.800 --> 00:47:12.199
We're almost on a twenty one year news Detalks now.

874
00:47:12.440 --> 00:47:15.400
Oh my gosh, that's incredible. I wish more people would

875
00:47:15.400 --> 00:47:19.719
think about doing that. You know, we're coming to an

876
00:47:19.920 --> 00:47:23.480
end and I'm enjoyed having you so much, and I'm

877
00:47:23.559 --> 00:47:27.599
gonna enjoy promoting your book also, I want to We've

878
00:47:27.599 --> 00:47:32.320
only covered five rules, so I would like to officially

879
00:47:32.400 --> 00:47:35.599
invite you back again, maybe next month or down the road,

880
00:47:35.840 --> 00:47:40.519
because we've got six through ten to discuss, and I

881
00:47:40.599 --> 00:47:44.840
feel like we're pretty much on the same page on

882
00:47:44.880 --> 00:47:48.719
a lot of our rules of life, don't you agree?

883
00:47:49.280 --> 00:47:51.960
I would agree, and January i'd like to. So I

884
00:47:51.960 --> 00:47:54.760
would love to accept that, and and I'll follow up

885
00:47:54.760 --> 00:47:57.159
with you off air. But we're doing a book club

886
00:47:57.199 --> 00:48:00.599
next month. It's free, completely free. That might be something

887
00:48:00.639 --> 00:48:02.719
cool you might want to check out, or you might

888
00:48:02.760 --> 00:48:04.400
have people that say, hey, I want to check it out.

889
00:48:04.400 --> 00:48:06.880
But what we're doing is we're doing a free night.

890
00:48:07.079 --> 00:48:10.679
I think it's September twenty sixth two hours. The first

891
00:48:10.760 --> 00:48:13.320
hour we have doctor Joe vi Tally who's going to

892
00:48:13.360 --> 00:48:15.639
be on interviewing him what have you, And then we'll

893
00:48:15.639 --> 00:48:18.159
go into a break at rooms and talk about my book.

894
00:48:18.480 --> 00:48:20.079
Then we're going to come back and then the top

895
00:48:20.119 --> 00:48:22.400
of the next hour, we have Marcy Shimoff Happy for

896
00:48:22.440 --> 00:48:24.800
no reason, and then we're going to go for another

897
00:48:25.039 --> 00:48:26.639
half hour and talk about my book. So it's going

898
00:48:26.679 --> 00:48:28.960
to be like a true book club, but also an

899
00:48:28.960 --> 00:48:32.119
event and completely free. So anyway that's you. Since you

900
00:48:32.159 --> 00:48:33.360
know the book well, you might want to come and

901
00:48:33.400 --> 00:48:34.039
check that outs.

902
00:48:34.199 --> 00:48:36.440
Oh for sure, for sure, I'd love to do that,

903
00:48:36.599 --> 00:48:39.800
and I hope my listeners will. Thank you for everyone

904
00:48:40.559 --> 00:48:44.599
joining us. We hope we've been informative and inspiring. No

905
00:48:44.679 --> 00:48:50.119
matter what age you are. Signing off January Jones as

906
00:48:50.199 --> 00:48:54.559
the Glitter Granny Now be sure to glitter and glow

907
00:48:54.800 --> 00:48:57.800
until we meet again. Thank you for entering the no

908
00:48:58.000 --> 00:49:01.360
Wine zone with us, and share our stories with everyone

909
00:49:01.440 --> 00:49:05.119
you know. And remember, if you're going to make people

910
00:49:05.280 --> 00:49:08.960
stare at you, you might as make it worth their

911
00:49:09.079 --> 00:49:14.679
while give them something to see. Now. Thank you again,

912
00:49:14.800 --> 00:49:17.440
Corey and I look forward to having you back with

913
00:49:17.519 --> 00:49:23.280
us soon. And to my listeners, take care and stay

914
00:49:23.320 --> 00:49:25.360
safe until we meet again.

915
00:49:29.559 --> 00:49:32.679
We want to thank you for listening to January Jones

916
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sharing success stories. Always remember miss Jones' personal mantra, if

917
00:49:37.639 --> 00:49:40.599
you can think it, you can do it. That's what

918
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919
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924
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925
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be successful too. Always remember your passion plus your purpose

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